Henry Pfafflin lived alone, and he was a bit odd, but he was loved by many.
He was a familiar sight to his neighbors in Sunset Heights. Faded yellow/tan adobe covered his brick house, which towered above the street on the corner of Prospect and Los Angeles. Henry’s dogs, a ferocious pack, barked and growled and snapped at passersby. They looked sort of like wolves. Sometimes, Henry would be in the yard lifting weights with his legs. His sister, Mary Lou, said he had hip surgery several years ago. One time I yelled at him to keep his dogs quiet, and he yelled back. But we saw each other in passing frequently, and became friendly.
Mary Lou was at Henry’s house Saturday because at some point over the past few days, Henry slipped away. She said he was found in his hot tub, and he likely passed out and drowned. She said he had several blackouts over the past four or five years, but he wouldn't go to a doctor to find out why he was having them.
I went over there because I got a message from someone asking if I knew what happened. I didn’t – the message was my first notice -- but early Saturday morning an unkempt, somewhat wild-eyed man knocked on my door and asked if he could use the phone. He had slept in the park in front of my apartment. From what little I could hear of his conversation, he had left his cell phone at someone’s house the night before. I got the impression he got into a tiff, or more, and stumbled in a haze until he fell asleep on the grass of Caruso Park. It was strange that he had a blanket, which as I write is still in a crumple in the corner of the park.
I didn’t want to add to the family’s burden, but I didn’t want to withhold potentially important information, especially since I didn’t know what had happened yet.
So there I was standing in the faded living room of the faded yellow/tan adobe-covered brick house talking to Mary Lou, who held back tears as she talked of her brother. She was convinced his death was natural. We talked about Henry, and also of superficial issues, and politics – the kind of conversation people have when they are dealing with a crisis, but are not swallowed by it.
Henry was probably having a good laugh about all this, Mary Lou said.
She had a notepad with names of Henry’s friends. He wanted a blues player at his funeral. I remembered him playing harmonica in Mundy Park, and riffing a chant.
One passion was his fight against Asarco. Henry was almost always there when people gathered to write, speak and sing against the smelter reopening. You probably saw him at a City Council meeting, or on television, or at the park. He walked with a limp, and while his face tightened at the mention of Asarco, he also could have a sense of grim humor about the deal, and he had a wide smile for his friends.
I didn’t know him well, but Henry was one of the guys who made this neighborhood what it is. It was comforting to go for a walk and see him sitting out with his dogs; when he passed in his green truck we’d exchange a wave. He was an anchor, a presence who was here as long as most can remember, and a guy who was loved by many.
Funeral preparations are pending. I’ll let you know when I know.
















Mary Lou Witholder
April 26, 2008
Thankyou for the nice write-up. It is so comforting to know that Henry had so many good friends.
Dave
April 27, 2008
We laughed with Henry. We laughed at Henry. We laughed with Henry at other people. But most of all we loved Henry. His odd ways and humor could be a spectacle to some, but were part of his normal character to most.
He fought hard. He believed in Sunset Heights, and in El Paso. He believed his home deserved better than Asarco, and he worked diligently to do his part to hold the company accountable.
Always with a smile. Always with a tune. We'll miss him very much.
Grace
April 27, 2008
Thanks, Sito.
Eric
April 27, 2008
Henry had a huge heart, and the courage to fight for what he believed in. He will be missed.
"Just say no, just say no to ASARCO"
RIP
Rick Provencio
April 27, 2008
The good die young. In this case, before the outcome of his struggle for the health, safety and comradeship of the people of Sunset Heights. The evils of ASARCO and those agencies meant to protect the citizens in his and our communities were only the lightning rods. I did not know him well except that his heart was in the right place. Without knowing this, his knowledgeable ramblings did not make sense. Sunset Heights and the Paso del Norte region have lost a character with real character. I know I will miss Henry Pfafflin.
pat medici
April 28, 2008
I will miss Henry. He was genuine & committed to his beliefs for which he tirelessly worked. Patricia Medici
Robin Vinikoff
April 29, 2008
Sito: Thanks for the article on my wonderful best friend Henry Pfafflin. I will miss him very much as will a lot of his other friends. I know he is playing his harmonica for everyone to enjoy in heaven.
Hal Marcus
April 30, 2008
Henry is right on!
When someone like Henry Pfafflin dies, it really makes me think how much these odd guys mean in our society. They are the loose canons that tell it like it is.
Henry was right on. He seemed to me to just add about 20 extra sentences onto the end of his every truth that mumbled on into infinity.
One thing he always did is thank me for showing up to the anti-Asarco meetings. When we spoke in detail about stuff, I told him, “We’re gonna win”. He would smile and tell me how corrupt and sneaky and exploiting the bad guys were.
I belived in the system.
He did not for a moment.
Now I know he is right on.
I’ll miss Henry’s cynical sarcasm and I’ll miss hearing his harmonica and seeing him in his T-shirt, blue jeans and ponytail. But most of all, I'll miss his 20 extra sentences.
Hal Marcus
Kathy Navarro
May 2, 2008
Henry will always be missed. I will forever hear the echo of his harmonica outside my window and inside my heart. He was not only my neighbor but one I considered family. He kept a good eye on the neighborhood and greeted new comers. Most of all he fought what he believed in and followed his heart. My family and I will forever love and miss you Henry. You will always be in our prayers.
norma glass
May 2, 2008
Thank you. I had known Henry since 1985. I thought he was a wonderful person. Always hopeful and most concerned about Sunset Heights. He is in a better place now. May he rest with his mom.